A Slut's Guide To Happiness - Episode 1: Walking Through Fear and Shame to Share Your Truth
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You can fit in the box society gives us, conforming to expectations about how we should love, have sex, raise families, work, dress, and behave. Or, if you dare to step outside the box, and you continue accepting yourself when other people tell you to get back in the box, you might find that there's so much more room to play, room for freedom, exploration and joy out here. But that move can be terrifying and it's no small feat. In this episode, I share instances in my life where I felt scared and ashamed about my identity and choices, and then eventually moved through the fear to be open about who I am. From choosing to become a solo parent through anonymous conception to becoming a hardcore porn performer, and more, I share the process of finding the courage to be honest about my life. The episode concludes with three big lessons I've learned from these experiences of coming out that might help you on your own growing edge of sharing who you are with the world.
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Welcome to a Slut's Guide to Happiness, where your body is perfectly imperfect
and it's safe to be as sexual, kinky, queer, or slutty as you want.
Join us in the pleasure of being awkwardly human, naked, and without pretense.
Let's get free!
This episode is going to explore what it looks like to be terrified
of stepping outside the box of social norms or being honest and open about who you are,
especially when your truth feels absolutely wrong, perverted, crazy, inappropriate,
and you are 97% sure you're going to be rejected, derided, and alone if you share that truth.
I'll explore how that's shown up in my life and give you three big lessons that I've learned
from my experience confronting these fears that you might be able to use in your own life.
So let me start with a biggie.
As a pansexual and queer and slutty woman and a porn producer, you might think it's one of those,
but it's actually something that's outside of that genre,
but it was a huge moment of overcoming terror in order to be who I am.
So at 27, I finally decided to pursue a lifelong dream to be a solo parent.
I don't know why I always knew that that's something that I wanted to do,
but you can go back to when I was in ********** school and I was talking about that dream.
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